Incompetent cervix

In the previous post I told the story about how I find out I was pregnant,  my husband and I were so happy we had a wonderful Christmas, on January we found out we were having a baby Boy,   on February 13 2015 was the first time I felt him MOVING,  I was so excited,  my belly kept growing and I was excited about being pregnant because I didn't had any morning sickness and I was telling every one who easy it was for me, on March 21 2015 , we went to dinner with some friends,  like we usually do on Fridays , we had dinner and then we went to their house,  my husband was playing Xbox with our friend husband,  and I was just talking to her about my pregnancy,  I was 23 weeks 3 days on that day, I went to the bathroom and I saw that I was bleeding a little bit, I got so scared,  I went out and I told my husband that we had to go to the ER ASAP, my husband was driving so fast, and we both didn't talk on the way there, I guess we both were scared,  we went to Alta view hospital in sandy Utah,  that is were my OB was,  we got to the ER front desk and told them what was happening,  they took me to the women's center building and they put me on a room on labor and delivery,  the nurse told me they were going to monitor me and the baby,  after asking me many queations the nurse told us we could rest and the doctor would come and see me later, she turned off the lights, my husband just lay down on the couch,  and I was there on the bed just wondering what was happening,  I didn't wanted to go into labor,  my Baby was not even 24 weeks , I was so scared.
Around 2:00 am the nurse came back and she told me they needed to do an ultrasound,  we went and they Did the ultrasound,  we came back to the room and again,  the nurse told us we could rest,  around 3 am, the nurse came back, she turned on the lights and she sat next to my husband,  her face was not happy at all, she told us that my cervix was thing and an specialist was going to come at 6 am to check me and see if I would need to have a surgery...  and then after saying That she left,
I started crying and I was so scared,  my husband gave me a hug and told me that everything was going to be OK, I told him to rest and I was going to try to sleep a little bit, but it was impossible, 
In that moment I started thinking and thinking,  my mom had the same problem when she was pregnant,  and to be able to have my brother and I,  she had to have surgery,  I was in shock,  my mom always told me to be careful with that, and what made me more sad was that I told my OB about my mother situation and I told him he,should check me, but he didn't,  he always said I was fine... I was so mad at my OB.
I started texting my mom and tell her everything,  also my brother, 
Around 6:10 am the specialist came and he checked me, he confirmed that I have INOMPETENT CERVIX. And I need the to have the surgery ASAP That way I could keep my pregnancy , but they would had to transfer me to another hospital,  the IMC in Murray Utah,  they called an ambulance and like 10 minutes after the guys from the ambulance were picking me up, they put me on the ambulance , I remember it was a beautiful morning,  and I just kept thinking how everything can change in your life in a minute....
We got to the IMC, they put me in room 7 on labor and delivery room, the nurse came and and she said that I was not able to eat because I was going to have a surgery,  she asked me again a lot of Questions and she put me an IV,  she said 2 doctor were going to come and check me,

I don't know what time it was when the 2 doctor came, they checked my cervix and, the sat and told me they were going to make decision on what to do with me, because there was a risk of breaking my water if they Did the surgery,  they said they will come with an answer like in an hour and they left.

The nurse came back and told us,  a doctor from the NICU was going to come and explain to us what was going to happen if during the surgery my water breaks and I have to had the Baby,
The doctor from the NICU came,  he told us that baby was 23 weeks 4 days, and the chance of survival was low, they told us that if he was born we would have to make the desition to keep him or to let him go, he said that if we decided to keep him the baby would have many complications,  and he may just live a couple of days,  he said more but I don't remember,  and then he left.

I started crying and crying,  I love my baby I wanted him to be safe, it was so hard, my husband came to my bed and he hold my hand and He started crying too, he told me that our son was an special spirit and maybe his purpose was to come to earth for a little bit and then go back to our heavenly father,  we both cry so much,  and we made our desition... 

I got so tired after that,  I was trying to fall sleep,  but I Could hear my husband crying,  I'm so lucky to have Chris as my husband,  he is my rock and the love of my life and in that moment I knew that  being together in hard times was a great experience because I know we can survived to hard times if we are together...

Like an hour after like 5 doctor came, they told me that they decied to not to do the surgery,  they put me on bed rest at home and with medications,

We felt so good, that was an opportunity to keep baby longer and as they said everyday was a bleeding ...

I was excited to do everything to keep my baby inside as long as possible,  we went home that as afternoon.